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Helpful Resources:

If You Need a Job:

http://www.care.com http://www.craigslist.com http://meyerweb.com/other/humor/interview.html http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/2TACss/lifehacker.com/5157794/top-10-tools-for-landing-a-better-job http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/2XDqwz/paperpenalia.com/handwriting.html (this one is to help improve hand writing. Something that can help decide if you get hired or not) "He's so lazy that if there were work in bed, he would rather sleep on the floor." - Paddy O'Dea

If You Hate how Shouts are Public:

https://privnote.com/

College Stuff:

http://www.collegeconfidential.com/

Sleep Trouble:

http://www.well.com/~mick/insomnia/

If You Need to save Money:

http://www.half.com http://amazingfreebiesdelight.yolasite.com/

If You Need a Laugh:

http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/4T3J2f/iusedtobelieve.com/ http://www.slightlywarped.com/crapfactory/curiosities/2010/price_tag_fails.htm http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/253wzW/theoatmeal.com/comics/cat_vs_internet http://www.c4vct.com/kym/humor/analog.htm "I have six locks on my door all in a row. When I go out, I lock every other one. I figure no matter how long somebody stands there picking the locks, they are always locking three." --Elayne Boosler

Cute Animals:

http://thedesigninspiration.com/articles/70-cutie-baby-animals-bring-your-a -good-mood/ http://www.desicolours.com/have-you-ever-been-so-tired/14/06/2009 http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/2URL2l/operachic.typepad.com/opera_chic/2009/07/mousie-mousie-mousie.html http://www.thingsthatmakeyougoaahh.com/images/224-p4wq.jpg (BABY PANDAS!!) http://www.cuteoverload.com/

Dating and Relationships:

http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1SAbx2/9gag.com/gag/3619/ http://www.internetdatingstories.com/ http://www.createblog.com/forums/lofiversion/index.php/t83863.html (for those interested in men) http://www.miacarmel.com/tips-about-relationships/75-lessons-that-must-be-learned-in-relation-2.html http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/AfBXJy/dating.suite101.com/article.cfm/unique_conversation_starters%253Fsms_ss%253Dstumbleupon "Bart, with $10,000, we'd be millionaires! We could buy all kinds of useful things like...love!" -Homer Simpson

Beauty:

http://www.christinaloves.com/2008/09/13/50-uses-for-vaseline/ http://www.blincinc.com/landing/15things.php

If You Need Inspiration:

http://www.worldofinspiration.com/ http://www.eightprinciples.com/ http://treasuretext.tumblr.com/post/2859447815/i-am-thankful "Flying is learning how to throw yourself at the ground and miss." - Douglas Adams

Helpful Life Tool Thingys:

http://www.43things.com (look up Tobi Uchiha) http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/2vP065/www.futureme.org/

Life Advice:

http://www.raptitude.com http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifehack/10-simple-ways-to-save-yourself-from-messing-up-your-life.html/comment-page-5 http://www.bluinc.com/free/human10.htm http://www.32keys.com/ "I always wanted to be somebody, but I should have been more specific." --Lily Tomlin

Education and School:

http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/30zbgn/rinkworks.com/bookaminute/classics.

If You're Bored:

http://www.stumbleupon.com http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/2mMRd1/svt.se/hogafflahage/hogafflaHage_site/Kor/hestekor.swf http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/2AfR5E/atom.smasher.org/error/ http://www.pagetutor.com/idiot/idiot.html http://www.omegle.com/ http://erkie.github.com/ http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/8l7krX/whathappenedinmybirthyear.com/ http://www.shockwave.com/content/shuffle/sis/shuffle.swf "I don't kill flies but I like to mess with their minds. I hold them above globes. They freak out and yell, 'Whoa, I'm way too high!' " --Bruce Baum

Spiritual:

http://www.mysteryplay.org/ http://www.godspeaks.com/intro.asp http://www.meant4more.com/ http://www.iamsecond.com/ "Constantly choosing the lesser of two evils is still choosing evil." - Jerry Garcia

If You Need to Recover:

http://www.celebraterecovery.com.au/8principles.php

If You want to Chat with Fellow Help.comers:

http://tinychat/oldhelpchat http://www.jalexinteractive.com/phpfreechat-1.3/index.php

If You're Tired of Email Spam:

http://www.hidemyass.com/anonymous-email/ http://www.guerrillamail.com/ "Today I met with a subliminal advertising executive for just a second." --Steven Wright

Cool:

http://fsymbols.com/

If You want to be Smarter:

http://www.cracked.com (Now I know how this site looks, but looks can be deceiving trust me it's ligit, lolz) http://www.mindtools.com/memory.html "Ever wonder if illiterate people get the full effect of alphabet soup?" --John Mendoza

Health Advice:

http://www.cholesterol-and-health.com/ http://www.whfoods.com/foodstoc.php http://www.findingbalance.com/ "The only way to keep your health is to eat what you don't want, drink what you don't like, and do what you'd rather not." - Mark Twain

Misc (but awesome):

http://www.treasuretext.tumblr.com http://www.funzug.com/index.php/fashion-trends/most-beautiful-henna-colours.html http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1QozrH/www.mnn.com/lifestyle/pets-animals/stories/bizarre-sea-slug-is-half-plant-half-animal-0

Important blurb from...

http://www.raptitude.com on this here page http://www.raptitude.com/2011/03/your-questions-answered/

Growing up I remember the saying: happiness is having someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to. Do you agree with this?

No. /ps the conventional approach and I think /ps a recipe for a life of suffering. /ps nothing wrong with those things, and they feel good, but hanging your happiness on them encourages a lifelong preoccupation with reaching and keeping certain ideal circumstances. Eventually your loved one dies or leaves. Eventually you age and cannot do what you once did. Your thing to look forward to might not be what you expected or might never happen.ThereitThat

So that strategy pt sound too wise. But ps pretty close to the normal way people approach life. I think we can do better than that.itdoesn

I have all three of those things all the time whether pm happy or not. Happiness, to me, is being in the present moment without being preoccupied by a craving for some part of that moment to be different. ps all it is. The circumstances pt have to be any particular way if I am able to accept them in real-time without getting wrapped up in how pd like them to be. To be a happy person is to get good at that.IdonThatI